She doesn’t get attached because she simply learned that attachment is the root of all evil . strong> It shapes her cling to things she should let go of. It stirs her chase people that are wrong for her. It induces her go after things that are probably not meantfor her. It glooms her logic and her opinion because she’s holding on out of anxiety rather than conviction.
She doesn’t get attached because she learned that not everything is hers to deter . strong> That there are bless in letting go and goodbyes and liberating whatever was holding her back. She knows that the more she is attached to something and afraid of forgetting it, the more she will push it away because she’s merely concentrate on rather than giving.
She doesn’t get attached because she knows that people eventually leave . strong> They don’t ever mean what they say. They don’t always keep their promises. They don’t always come back. They don’t always adoration her forever and even if they do, enjoy is sometimes not enough to keep a relationship proceeding. She knows that getting attached too soon will always end in disappointment. She knows that people change their brains overnight.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she’s tired of people drawing away, people changing their heads, people leaving, people not knowing what the hell is crave or what they’re looking for . strong>
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she realized that one-sided affection injures . strong> One-sided attachment always brings her ache. One-sided attachment establishes her love herself a little less and makes her forget her own merit. She realized that when she gets attached, she loses herself and she vowed never to lose herself for anyone ever again.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she’s hearing to let go, she’s learning to move on, she’s learning that it doesn’t ever have to be her course . strong> She’s learning that her nerve is not always right and attraction can be blind. She’s gradually hearing to detach from everything that stimulates her topic herself or her love.
She doesn’t get attached but she still knows how to adore. She’s finally accepting that they’re not the same . strong> She’s finally learning that if “youve been” adoration person, maybe liberating them is the expression of love. Letting them be who they genuinely is intended to be or be with the partner they’ve always wanted. She’s ultimately learning that if she’s meant to be with person, they’ll both various kinds of attach to each other by default, like a magnet, without anyone pushing or drawing, without anyone detaching and without any need to control one another.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she’s finally learning that everything is temporary and maybe the whole degree of love is just to enjoy it while it lasts instead of trying to cling to it eternally.
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